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Being able to successfully judge whether or not your date is attracted to you and enjoying your company can be tricky. However, there are clues in the body language which you can use to find out whether your date will be hoping for a goodnight kiss at the end of the night. If your date displays a cluster of the signs below, it is likely that they’re more than just a little bit interested in you...

Positive positioning
As strange as it may sound, your date’s feet will give a lot away, more specifically, the direction in which they’re pointing. So if they are aimed towards you, as opposed to the exit, you can safely assume that his/her attention is focused on you.

'Open’ gestures
Unfolded arms will typically indicate that your date is comfortable in your company and willing to open up to you. Similarly, upturned palms during conversation will show that your date is genuine and not closed off. However, bear in mind that your date may cross their arms, or clench their fists if they’re feeling cold!

Leaning
If your date leans in towards you it’s a positive sign. You shouldn’t be afraid to ‘mirror’ this action by leaning towards them to meet them halfway. You can also subtly mirror other positive bodily cues, like smiling and head tilting.

Smiling and laughing
This body language is pretty obvious, and provides a clear indication that your date is enjoying your company, particularly if he/she is in stitches at your repertoire of terrible jokes! Smiling can be very powerful because a smile is never straightforward. If your date is attracted to you, their smiling is likely to become coy and playful rather than merely friendly and welcoming.

Head tilting
Head tilting is a great way of telling whether or not you’re captured your date’s interest. If your date tilts their head to the side it's a positive indicator of attentiveness. However, if your date’s head is pointing downwards or turning to allow them to look around the room, it’s likely that your conversation is boring!

Raised shoulders
Raised shoulders typically accompany the leaning posture, and exhibit interest and attraction. In everyday interactions, women commonly raise their shoulders as a reaction to something which is cute or charming. So guys, if she does it when you’re around, it can only be a good thing.

2nd April 2007